âYou should not be surprised at my saying, âYou must be born again.ââ (John 3:7)
The birth metaphor is more than a metaphor.
Yes, the process of birth is a beautiful picture of Godâs grace and sovereignty. Grace because He is bestowing new life. Sovereignty because it is God who bestows it. Just as the baby does very little to usher himself into the world, so we do very little to experience rebirth. It is God who takes away our heart of stone and gives us a heart of flesh. It is God who calls us and leads us forth.
But that doesnât mean the journey is easy. The metaphor, my friend, gets real.
A Spiritual New Creation
Physical birth changes the most fundamental aspects of your existence. The way you breathe. The way you eat. The way you engage with the world around you.

Spiritual birth is just as shattering. It may be true that the transformation is the result of something happening to you, but the effects demand a response from you. Once the process begins, there are only two options. You can push forward into new life, or you can retreat. The journey forward leads to life. The path of resistance leads to death.
Sometimes the path forward doesn’t seem like the best way. The journey itself is so dark. And every comfort you have ever known lies behind you. There is a loneliness and a disconnection you have never felt. You are being pushed and pulled and twisted until it feels like your insides are spilling out. What has happened? Everything was just fine! If you knew how to scream, you would, and your scream would be a cry of âHelp me!â
The response is one of greater pushing, greater darkness, greater aloneness.
Finding the Path Out
The path out, my friend, is forward. It doesnât matter if you donât know the way; it turns out there is only one. And once God has gotten ahold of you, He will never let you go. He will push you and push you and push you until you feel your insides coming out. He will twist you and turn you and flip you upside down. He will cut you off from the very things that seem to sustain you. And all of that, all of that, is the path forward.

I donât know what happens next, but Iâll tell you what I think. I think we come into a whole new world we canât even begin to imagine. It may be a long journey, or it may be a short one. It may come in a single arduous stretch or a series of sharp contractions. The journey is not really our choice. But eventually the new world comes. We take our first breath in a way we didnât even know we could breathe. We feel things we didnât know we could feel. We see things we didnât know we could see. How small and dark is the place we come from, compared to the place we go! In this new place we learn and grow and live in a way we could never imagine.
New Creation – Around and Within
God will bring us there. He may be bringing you there right now. And if He is, if you look around and all you see is darkness, remember: Just because you cannot see the light at the end of the tunnel, doesnât mean it isnât there. Your eyes may be closed to the fact that an entirely new world is just above the crown of your head.
âHow can a man be born when he is old?â Nicodemus asked.
Oh, Nicodemus, Nicodemus. You will find out. You will feel it. You will feel what it is to be born even when you are old.
You donât even know what it is to breathe. Until you take your first breath.
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Janet Beagle, Ph.D. serves as director of graduate programs for Purdue Universityâs College of Engineering and is a writer, a Bible study teacher, and a student of Godâs Word. In her spare time, she likes to eat other peopleâs cooking and hike with her two- and four-footed friends. Read more of Janetâs Christian reflections at www.mustardpatch.org
Woah, I am chewing and meditating on this as my soul is crying out, YES! Thank you, Janet, for making me look at the spiritual birth process afresh. So good.