Over the river and through the woods to NOBODY’S house we go—Huh? The holidays are here. That means everyone wants to go somewhere. Grandma and Grandpa’s tiny city apartment, Sissy’s country house, or Aunt Bonnie and Uncle Bob’s dessert room and Pennsylvanian “castle” beckon us. Anywhere will do—as long as there’s snow. The problem? This ridiculous, a-hem…historical, distinctive year…is not over yet. We’re encouraged to keep our germs to ourselves; Stay home. Preferably alone. The rebel in me lashes out with something like: “Are they kidding me? Roll me up in a plastic wrap. I need to see my babies.” Memories of our four grandchildren, their cozy hugs and innocent smiles, invade my dreams—priceless moments to cherish—especially when everyone came home for Christmas.
Where the love light gleams…
Christmas is a season not only of rejoicing but of reflection.Winston Churchill
I envision our home bursting at the seams with kids and dogs running amuck. Snow-covered mountains add to the ideal scene. Children listen to the age-old story huddled beside the tree. Laughter, song, and the intoxicating scent of Nanny’s Christmas cookies fill the air. All eyes bright and gazing as logs crackle and embers glow in the fireplace.
No matter what we faced throughout the year, we could always count on celebrating holidays together. Although 2020’s Covid-19 dilemma and the fate of future gatherings grips a fearful world, there’s no need to beg for an ear. The true meaning of Christmas remains the same and rings ever clearer this year. It’s time to remember and share the gift of hope. Whether it be via Zoom, Google Meet, or Facetime—the essence of the message will never change. We’re not alone. Christmas, or any other day of the year, God is with us.
The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel (which means “God with us”).Matthew 1:23 NIV
Away in a manger
Alone and unsure of the future, the newlywed couple awaited the birth of Jesus, God’s Son, in a lowly manger. The company of livestock and unseen angels stood in place of family and friends. When I think about their reality and the raw truth of the story, a different perspective of my present loneliness calms my soul.
While I miss my sons and grandchildren, I imagine how Mary and Joseph’s weariness and emptiness of going it alone through such unforeseen circumstances could have taken its toll. Instead, their season of solitude brought forth peace, joy, contentment, and deeper love. I’m thankful for their example as we make the most of celebrating Christmas 2020 minus the parties, crowded festivals, or lavish (wasteful) feasts. Wow. Home for Christmas has taken on new meaning this unusual holiday season. We’re forced into quiet mode—whether we like it or not.
It came upon the midnight clear…
Where the heart is
If home truly is where the heart is, suddenly, merry and bright have a deeper meaning too. Maybe it’s rooted in the mysterious way the first Christmas and the birth of Jesus, the King of Kings, began with a fear that gave way to faith. Pain and the darkest of nights gave way to peace and amazing light. God lit the sky that night. He alone made the way for them. I believe he can do the same for me, you, and all who ask for miracles.
Many of us have faced tragedies head-on this year. As if buried by a sudden avalanche, the brokenhearted gasp for breath to mourn and pray. Finding Christmas cheer is like looking for something long lost, or a million miles away. I stand with them now in prayer: God, please fill our empty homes with hope for tomorrow. In sickness or health. Sadness or joy. Jesus is the reason I celebrate life. Emmanuel. God with us.
Oh Holy Night…
Everyone is home
Forget the die-hard homebodies. I mean, EVERYONE is home: Men and women who wouldn’t leave the office for anything or anyone—Home. Workaholic fathers. Stressed-out mothers. Over-tired children…and everyone in-between. If we’re honest we might admit we see some uncounted blessings in this pandemic curse.
We’ve slowed down to a crawl. We take the time to go for strolls in the rain or snow and even say hello to unneighborly neighbors while we walk our dogs. Cooking and eating meals together might become a welcomed trend. Could this be the water on the lit fuse we prayed for? When I consider the phrases from songs that bring tears and smiles at Christmas, a common thread remains. Happiness, love, and joy are born out of living and believing.
Let the weary world rejoice…
Home for the holidays? If only in my dreams…
No matter what good has come from several months of solitude, most of us are praying for an end to this pandemic. People of all faiths agree: While we’re thankful for the time together, we miss the rush and bustle of living, giving, sharing, and caring.
Please, God, hear our prayer…
This year my heart’s desire and #1 Christmas wish are the same: We’ll all be home (safe and healthy) for Christmas—If only in my dreams.
Do you recall fond or funny home for Christmas memories? No doubt, some of the most dreaded may have become more treasured just because they were spent surrounded by loved ones. I pray we try to savor these quiet moments without fear and reflect on a few hidden blessings of the last several months. How are you celebrating this odd year? Will you be home for the holidays?
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