I once gave a speech likening our personal development to grass. I am reminded of this speech today as I try to enjoy a late afternoon nap. You’ll understand the connection in a moment.
I was a senior in college and president of a student organization that was welcoming its next class of inductees. The room was filled with students and friends, faculty and administrators. Even the college president and his wife.
It was a big deal.
I talked about growth, about perseverance over time, about coming back when our dreams have been mowed down. The speech was inspired by the cantankerous lawn mowers that always revved outside my dorm window the moment I tried to sneak in a late afternoon nap. It never failed that right then was when they decided the grass needed trimming.
My fellow students could relate.
“But no matter how often life cuts you down, you must continue to grow,” I exhorted.
The audience laughed at the right moments and listened at the serious points. I was in my element. When it was over, the president stopped by and shook my hand.
“That was one of the best student speeches I’ve heard,” he said.
Now let me put this in its proper context. It was a small college. The type of place where the president might pass you on the sidewalk on the way to class and say hello. Even if he didn’t quite know your name, he’d certainly know your face. He had no doubt paid similar compliments to dozens of student leaders. I hadn’t done anything extra special, and he hadn’t said anything extraordinary. But twenty years later, I still remember the compliment.
The memory returned one afternoon when a lawnmower jamboree broke out in my neighborhood the moment I tried to sneak a little nap. (It still never fails.) The longer I laid there counting grass blades and trying to sleep, the stronger the lesson became. That moment, out of all the moments, was significant enough for me to recall it so many years later.
The price of leadership is often high: high stress, high pressure, high stakes. But some of the longest-lasting impacts of leadership happen in between all the important stuff.
We take time out of our schedule to attend an inconsequential event. We look someone in the eye. We shake their hand. We tell them, “That was a fine job.”
And twenty years later, that still means something. Those words are still pouring fertilizer on a blade of grass that has been mowed down and mowed down and mowed down – but still continues to grow.
How many contracts expire within a few years? How many business dealings degrade within a decade? Do you even recall what was discussed at last Tuesday’s meeting? There is an opportunity in between all of that to have a real impact.
Every one of us can take time out of our schedule to attend to an inconsequential moment. We can look someone in the eye. We can shake their hand. We can tell them, “That was a fine job.”
We may never know what those words mean. But all around us, lives could be growing. Not because of some big, sweeping contribution we made. No, quite the opposite.
We simply need to implement the leadership lessons contained in a blade of grass.
Janet Beagle, Ph.D. serves as director of graduate programs for Purdue University’s College of Engineering and is a writer, a Bible study teacher, and a student of God’s word. In her spare time, she likes to eat other people’s cooking and hike with her dog, Marly, who recently passed away but is not forgotten. Read more of Janet’s Christian reflections at www.mustardpatch.org.