Grumbling and complaining, I asked, “Why, God? I don’t understand why I pray and pray, and nothing happens!”
Grumbling and Complaining Become Habits
My husband and I wanted a family. We had been married for four years, but pregnancy eluded me. Fertility tests revealed no problems. I was desperate and sad, and I grumbled. Our friends all had one or two children. My desire for a child consumed my waking thoughts. My grumbling and complaining became a habit.
Once we open the door to complaining, it’s difficult to find contentment with anything.
In Numbers 21, the Israelites expressed their complaints against Moses and God. Rather than being grateful for the manna and all of God’s protection and miracles, they criticized everything. “‘And the people spoke against God and against Moses, “Why have you brought us up out of Egypt to die in the wilderness? For there is no food and no water, and we loathe this worthless food.’” (Numbers 21:5)
Grumbling is Sin
Finally, God sent poisonous serpents among the people, and many of them died. The serpents got their attention, and they confessed their sin against God and Moses. As an Old Testament type of Christ, Moses interceded for them. However, rather than removing the serpents that represented their sin, God ordered Moses to make a bronze serpent and set it high on a pole. When someone was bitten by a serpent, they looked to the bronze serpent, and they were healed.
In John 3:14, Jesus said the bronze serpent represented Him. “And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, so must the Son of Man be lifted up, that whoever believes in him may have eternal life.” When we look up to Jesus, He takes away our sins and gives us eternal life. Christ’s example teaches us to please and not anger God.
Guard Against Wrong Attitudes
As believers, the Holy Spirit guards our hearts and reminds us of God’s goodness. He examines our thoughts and gives us an attitude of gratitude. In all things, God works for our good (Romans 8:28).
Do all things without grumbling or disputing, 15 that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, 16 holding fast to the word of life … Philippians 2:14-16a
Why is it always snakes? 😀
The Bible has several infertility stories – Sarah, Hannah, Rebekah, Rachel, and Elizabeth. It has to be difficult to see it as part off God’s plan.
A great reminder for all of us. Thank you.