God Said You’re a Keeper: Mercy Changes Everything

Keeper, courtesy of Way of Freedom International, Pakistan

Keeper, Courtesy of Adobe Spark“Throw that one back. He’s not a keeper.”

Memories of fishing with my dad linger in my mind. A girly pre-teen, I refused to bait the hook with worms. Real ones. Rubber worms I could handle.

Still, I indulged in my dad’s hobbies in order to spend time with him. He’d been out of my life for a few years. Now, I wanted to know him and be with him.

But there’s something I quickly learned in this newfound sport—not all fish were keepers. Maybe it’s the sport of fishing—to brag that you caught this fish—then throw it back. Perhaps a desire to tell a big fish story. The thrill of using your hands to describe you caught a humdinger.

And sometimes the fish caught isn’t the one you want. You keep some, you throw some back.

Keeper Lessons in Life

After my early fishing adventures, I discovered keeper lessons in life. A boyfriend decided another girl made a better catch. Friends didn’t view me as a keeper and went fishing.

And my father’s absence became the springboard to draw false conclusions about keepers. See, no one wants to keep me.

I continued to wear the I-must-not-be-a-keeper badge into adulthood. Deceptive inside chatter tried to Keeper, courtesy of Adobe Sparkconvince me.

  • I’m in the company lay-off because others performed at a higher level. As an employee, I’m not a keeper.
  • She stopped reaching out because I’m not her first choice. As a best friend, I’m not keeper material.
  • I fell short in the committee’s standards. As a team member, I’m not good enough to keep.

Each time someone threw me back into life’s pond, my heart made a note. You’re not a keeper. 

Am I keep-worthy?

But who decides keep-worthiness? The enemy hopes we’ll buy the world’s slick-selling guise, “Keep the deserving; throw the others back.”

Culture deems who’s a keeper.

  1. Star athletes. Check.
  2. Celebrities at the peak of their career. Check.
  3. The business man at the top of his game. Check.
  4. The she-does-it-all-well mom. Check.
  5. The picture-perfect wife. Check.
  6. A friend who’s best-friend-forever material. Check.
  7. Beautiful and flawless and sweet children. Check.

All good catches.

Yet, my reality, and I surmise your reality, looks unraveled compared to numbers 1-8. And even stars and beauty and careers and people with the brightest right-now spotlights eventually take a back seat.

Keeper, courtesy of Way of Freedom International, PakistanThe real-right-here moments expose a needy world longing for someone to keep them.

Orphan children wait and long for adoptive parents to choose them . . . love them . . . and keep them.

My friend, Asher, ministers to 200 orphans in his country of Pakistan. My heart breaks at the children’s cries. If we have mom and dad, we have clothes and food and Christmas gifts. Money for when we sick in the hospital.

Or a spouse announces, “I don’t love you anymore.” And they leave you for a keeper. A friend betrays you. You’re abandoned by someone who was supposed to take care of you. You didn’t make the cut in the contest, the job, the team, the family or the group.

Kept by Mercy

But—and this is a monumental but—the Lord consistently reminds me, “Karen, you’re a keeper.” The world shows no mercy to the undeserving.

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Out of God’s great compassion and loving mercy we’re kept. His unfathomable mercy assures, “I’ve caught a humdinger. You’re the one I searched for and wanted. My prize. You’re my catch of the day. You could never do anything to be thrown back.”

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The Lord will not forsake his people, for they are his prize.  Psalm 94:14 TLB

Keeper, courtesy of Adobe SparkPrayer: Lord, I’m overwhelmed by Your keeping-mercy. You never cast off Your own. Today, remind me how tenderly You choose me and love me and keep me. Always. Amen.

Featured image and additional orphan image courtesy of Asher Mehmood, Evangelist and Chairman, Way of Freedom International Church in Pakistan. Feeding the Orphans.

Other images courtesy of Adobe Spark.

Karen Friday

Whether the spoken or written word, Karen thrives in moving an audience to experience laughter, tears, surprise, and deep reflection. She not only possesses an affection for words (just ask her family), but she also cherishes God’s Word. Karen is an award-winning writer who has published both devotions and articles with a mission to know Jesus more and make Him known. She contributes to several national sites while she works on her first non-fiction book. In the blogging world, she is referred to as “Girl Friday” where she shares a central message: you are never far from hope. And she considers her life as a pastor’s wife and women’s ministry leader a sacred calling. Karen and her husband Mike reside in East Tennessee and have two grown children and two grandchildren. The entire family is fond of the expression, “TGIF: Thank God it’s Friday.” They owe Monday an apology. Connect with her blog community, Hope is Among Us.

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  1. Thank you Karen. I battle the wounds of rejection often, but then the Lord reminds me that I am His special treasure. How precious is He?

    1. John, thank you for commenting. We can rest in this: God’s unfathomable mercy assures, “I’ve caught a humdinger. You’re the one I searched for and wanted. My prize. You’re my catch of the day. You could never do anything to be thrown back.” Blessings!

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